Note: We’re excited to share this guest post from one of our valued clients.
AS A HUSBAND, FATHER, ARCHITECT and constructions coordinator, I found myself struggling to balance my demanding job with my personal life and I almost ended up in a divorce and with a bad alcohol addiction.
DEMANDING JOB. ADDICTION. FAMILY
My name is Bozo Ferjan, and I am a 44-years old and for years, I struggled with the demanding nature of my job, which often required me to work long hours and be on-call during various phases of my projects.
This pressure, coupled with bad habits in terms of eating and sleep, began to take a toll on me, on my job performance, my marriage and my family life. Before I knew it, I was suffering from insomnia, early stages of alcoholism, I was fat and tired and my marriage was on the verge of collapse.
A SMALL CHANNEL. A SMALL HOPE.
It was during this dark period of desperation that I stumbled upon the Mastery Order channel on YouTube, which led me to their Time Mastery coaching services. At the time, I felt lost and confused, just another burden on this earth, not willing to aim anywhere in life and just drifting along and making ends meet each month while sinking deeper into addiction.
My family was suffering. My connection with my wife was almost gone. We fought a lot and my kids bared the consequences as well. I was desperate to save myself and my marriage from total collapse, so I decided to take the plunge and ask for help.
ZERO EXPECTATIONS. GREAT RESULTS.
Even if I agreed to the coaching idea, I honestly entered this process with zero expectations, hoping only to convince my wife that I was doing my best, to gain some extra time to figure things out. The desire to change was there. The hope to find a solution online was not.
I spent seven months in the Time Mastery program with Mr. Black, and even though many of our conversations were confrontational, harsh, and direct, I received a lot of understanding and great advice for my struggles. As of now, almost a year later, I haven’t touched a glass of alcohol in over four months, and my sleep is always on point. The insomnia is gone, and lost all the extra weight, I am fit and healthy and I have much more structure in my life.
Thanks to the simple techniques, common sense, the right attitude, and a few other specific tools shared by Mr. Black, I’ve been able to put my life back on track. Even though my job is still demanding, I’ve learned to structure my life and my family’s life to fit the unscheduled parts of my duties in such a way that they don’t interfere with our well-being. I now have more time for my family and my passions, and I feel like I have regained control over my life.
FROM ZERO TO HERO
I have transformed myself and my mindset from one of an overwhelmed man with a ton of responsibilities, scared that I would fail everyone that I loved, ashamed of my addictions and lack of control over my actions at times, to a man with authority over myself and the ones I serve. My ambitions and dreams are revitalized, and I carry my responsibilities proudly. I know at all times how to plan my days so that neither my family nor my job is lacking my full attention.
My relationship with my wife was never so intimate and my boys call me a hero now, which is a line stronger than coffee or any other motivational slogan that I can hear.
I want to take this opportunity to extend a graceful thank you note to Mr. Black for believing in me and giving me the tools that I needed to take control of myself and my days. Without this guidance and support, I don’t know where I would be today.
The Time Mastery program truly transformed my life, and I’m grateful for the opportunity to share my story with others who may be struggling in the same way that I was.
